I know we all heard the statement "Anything you need let me know." Most of these statements come from close friends, acquaintance, family friends which at the moment that it is mentioned you really feel that your trust towards them is so high. It's like your parents telling you as a kid, if your good you will get that toy you always wanted or when you graduate from college you will get that car you dreamed about. Your expectations are so high that if it's broken you feel like your idea, goal or even your life is over. I had tend to believe that we as people should put our trust in a logic sense of direction. If we can start reading in between the lines, then it will make it a lot easier for you to take in information without catching feelings.
For example, If a person says " If you need anything let me know"
Step.1 If they are not helping your right at the moment then they either won't help you or by time they actually help you it will be done already.
Step 2. Ask yourself how often does that person do favors for you
Step 3. Just look at that person and listen when they are speaking because something may come out that will trigger you to know it will not get done.
Step 4. Have a back up plan
Just a little advice, don't put your trust in people but put it into a logic sense of direction.
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