Getting Unstuck

We as humans are always stuck in situations.  So how do we get UNSTUCK? Now, this is difficult because you always get unstuck at the place where you get stuck. So when people want to get unstuck we tend to see them run a lot of times from the place they had got stuck. And I want to stop them and say they don't understand you got to go back to the place where you got stuck and ask yourself. What happen? And not to punish yourself or beat up yourself and realize what my mistake was and how do I get out of that mistake. See most of the problems we have in life within them hold the answers, but we are too impatient to pill back the problem to find the answer. We look at the problem in such a negative way that we don't even want to talk about it, think about it, and not even be near it and off we run. But just some advice, if you really want to get unstuck go to the place where you was stuck.